Catharz wrote:Which is no reason to punish the children.
Society cannot and will not save everyone. Any assertion that it should must be instantly disregarded, because that is a fantasyland and we don't actually live there.
If cutting off payment to some welfare families for violating the terms of their welfare hurts children (and it does), yet helps in form of being able to make demands and stipulations of those on welfare that improve society overall (and it could), then it needs to happen.
People who can't afford kids shouldn't have kids. And there needs to be a mechanism in place for discouraging them from having kids. And if punishing the parents incidentally punishes the children, that is a tragedy, but imagine all the kids that would be
helped because their family is being encouraged to be economically stable?
The solution here is to not throw money at families that are being irresponsible, proportional the amount their irreponsibilities need covering, just because children happen to be involved. The key is to help people in need, who are either currently responsible but just on hard times or willing to live responsibly as the terms dictate.
Edit: Kaelik's examples of sterilization are extreme and bad, and they are not easily reversed. But there are much better ones which still work.